FW: TEKNIK BERTENGKAR SECARA POSITIF
Renung-renungkan…dan selamat beramal….Demi kebahagiaan rmh tangga…
1. Jgn Terlampau Byk Berckp
Ketika bertengkar, hati masing-masing pasti dalam keadaan marah. Ketika
marah, pasti perkara yang logik sekalipun tidak diterima melainkan
masing-masing mahu menegakkan pendapat masing-masing. Jika anda sebagai
suami mempunyai hak untuk bercakap sekalipun, kurangkan daripada terlalu
menegakkan pendapat anda sendiri. Hal ini akan mencetuskan perasaan tidak
puas hati kepada pasangan anda sehingga perlahan-lahan dia akan menjadi
bosan dengan anda. Yang perlu anda lakukan adalah dengan memikirkan secara
mendalam cara untuk membetulkan keadaan.
2. Jgn Menyebut Kelemahan Pasangan
Bukan hanya isteri anda yang mempunyai kelemahan, anda juga ada ke-lemahan
sendiri. Jadi, dengan mengungkit kelemahan dia, anda akan turut merangsang
pasangan mengungkit kelemahan anda. Lagi pula, anda tidak akan menang
dengan hanya mengungkit sebegini tetapi menyebabkan keadaan lebih parah.
Jika mahu menegur pasangan, minta dia meluahkan ketidak-puasan hatinya
tentang anda dahulu supaya apabila giliran anda nanti, dia tidak akan
meninggikan suara.
FW: Another safety alert
Safety in Public Places
My 9 year old son was mugged yesterday in the washroom of KLCC Mosque.
My son was attending a 2 weeks holiday course at the KLCC Mosque from 8.00am-5.00pm Monday – Thursday. Yesterday (19/11/08) at around 11am, my son went to the Mosque’s washroom with 2 friends, both 8 year olds. A man with his face covered with some cloth, leaving only his eyes exposed, was waiting in the Mosque’s washroom. The man grabbed my son, held him in a hug and searched my son’s body for any precious items. Found a very old handphone in my son’s pocket, took that and thank god, let my son go. The 2 friends of my son were terrified when my son was grabbed and ran out of the toilet. As soon as my son was released, he ran back to his class located in the prayer area of the mosque and informed the teacher who then reported the incident to the Mosque’s security. The security guards apprehended a man later but was released as my son confirmed that he was not the criminal based on clothes and body size identification.
